The Best Way to Get Over a Break up So It Won’t Break You
You desperately want to know the best way to get over a breakup and feel better. Well, start with these tips to begin the process of letting your heart heal.
The best way to get over a break up is to turn it on its head and understand how the situation can benefit you and not break you!
1.Give yourself a fresh start –
Forget about the baggage and the past and give yourself the chance for a new start.
2. Reevaluate what you’re looking for –
Some might see a break-up as a negative thing, but when you experience a break up, you have the opportunity to hit the pause button and re-evaluate what you’re looking for.
3. Reconnect with who you are –
Some might think break-ups are times to feel lonely and all alone, but really it’s a great time to reconnect with who you are.
4. Reconnect spiritually –
On the surface, people associate breaking up with times of sadness and self-loathing but it’s the perfect chance to reconnect with God.
5. Get your groove back –
Breaking up gives you the chance to get your swag back. It gives you the chance to put the pep back in your step, straighten up your crown, take out that new party frock and hit the town.
I’m not telling you to start a steamy affair with a young, sexy thing. Pause from all the of rush and busyness of your life to learn to balance love and life.
6. Reinvent yourself –
Have you always wanted to try a new career? Have you longed to learn a new language or live out of the country? Now is your chance. Reinvent yourself. Push yourself to your limits.
7. Deal with your emotional health –
Breaking up can be a really emotional time. Lots of ugly crying, tissues, nose dripping…I get it.
It’s like a death in your life. So you may want to get some counseling to deal with it and other things that may need addressing.
Eventually when you’re ready and your heart is healed, you’ll be able to head out and love again. Don’t feel pressure to do this sooner than you can deal with it and process it.
8. Take Back Your Power
Break-ups make us feel powerless.
Why not take back your power?
Start now by checking out these 50 tips on how you can let your heart heal, be strong and get your power back.